I was fortunate to get out before the rain. Playing alone, as one is apt to do in November when the temperatures are firmly set in single digits, I checked in and quickly made my may to the first tee. Two balls, why not. No scorecard, no need for one. It was easy to smile and enjoy the day, even on an overcast day with a light drizzle. And in my never-ending quest to get better my project for the afternoon was to begin to establish a pre-shot routine, focusing on a slow backswing and better body rotation. But bundled up in three layers I tended to revert back to just smiling and enjoying the day. I might have played 12 holes or so, I wasn’t counting, before the drizzle gave way to rain. By the time I made it back to the car the rain had intensified and as I placed the clubs in the car I sensed that was it for my 2017 season. And I was ok with that.
It’s been a unique and challenging season for me. My index rose almost 1.5 strokes to 10.6 and I got to late August and found myself struggling with golfer’s elbow. Some time off helped, a bit. I continued with my lessons, working hard (and smart) for greater consistency off the tee (as I have for almost 25 years, truthfully). Better fundamentals – both on the tee and around the greens – are giving me cause for optimism for 2018.
The year was not without its highlights. I am finishing my first year as an associate member of Hidden Lake Golf Club. Living about 10 minutes away makes the convenience of belonging more appreciated that I could have imagined. I was able to play 17 of 21 weeks of Men’s Night and got in with a great group of guys. My regular foursome is stereotypical in that we support good play and don’t miss a chance to needle each other for missed putts and the odd time a fairway hit is not our own. I loved my experience with the club championship and am completely hooked on competitive play. I’m already excited for next year.
I struggled through what I am starting to see as a regular mid-season swoon. This year was a solid 5 or 6 week stretch of inconsistent and poor play in the height of summer. It culminated at one of my low points in the game where my anxiety kicked in early in a round and took hold but two good friends whom I was playing with kept me focused on breathing and simply having fun. Two good rounds at the club championship seemed to get me back and the fall season has been one where bad weather and I have paired up regularly for a quick nine or a very quiet round.
Personally, my fall, like my golf game this year, has not gone according to plan. Within one week my 12 year old dog took sick and we had to put him down. I had two unexpected business trips thrown in too. An early fall vacation (which was fabulous) seems like ages ago. I am not writing all this to lament, but simply to share that life as with golf needs to be played as it lies. But a part of me has welcomed time for reflection.
Looking back, my golf season, like my time on the course this past Saturday, has been fun. I have been quiet of late with my blogging and I suppose my schedule and my life dictated most of that. But I am very happy to be able to re-connect with you and hope your golf season was an enjoyable, long and successful one. I learned a great deal this year and embrace the opportunities for an off season away from the course and to re-charge. It’s only 4+ months until my course is open for the 2018 season!
2018 will also provide me some unique opportunities to chip away at my bucket list, with business trips to Vancouver, Winnipeg and Regina planned…which means time tacked on for golf!
“…that life as with golf needs to be played as it lies.”
Thanks for that Mike.
I second that Rod. Mike you are The Yoda of golf
Mike, thanks for the update. It’s great to get a summary of everyone’s year, with all the ups and downs. Very sorry to hear about your dog.
Have a great holiday season and be safe!
Brian
Thanks for the kind words Brian. Time helps a lot. As for the end of the season, I’m not sure what can help with that one!! Cheers, Mike.
Mike,
Glad to see you writing again my friend, my feed is always better with your posts. Loved that you made the most of 12 holes in the cold and rain and had some fun. Your honesty about life and golf is refreshing and you definitely have the right attitude to cope with the challenges that life throws at us, and to make the most of the good times. Keep plugging away, I look forward to hearing about your off-season and a healthy elbow starting next season!
Sorry again about Charlie.
Cheers
Josh
Josh,
One of the things I truly appreciate about blogging has been the relationships I’ve been able to develop and it’s allowed me to build trust to share like this. I can wait to read about your recent Monterrey trip, I’m quite confident I’ve never golfed on as a nice piece of real estate.
Things are well, better anyway, and I’m going to throw myself in the deep end around writing and golf-centric wellness this off season.
I appreciate the message my friend!
Mike.
I agree Mike re the relationships blogging has helped develop but for me it is also golf itself. It is a contact sport and I am so happy to connect with so many wonderful people who I never would have met if I didn’t start golfing.
Hope to see you again next summer.
Cheers,
Tiff
Mike
That was quite a year. Sorry about your loss, puppies are an important member of every family! You golf year sounds like a roller coaster ride this year. Unfortunately, that happens and from time to time is allows us to realize how grateful we are for other life’s blessings. I want to wish you a fantastic off-season and look for to reading about your adventures to lower scores in 2018.
Cheers
Jim
Thank you very much Jim
Despite some challenges, overall it really was a good year. I’ll certainly keep in touch over the off season and certainly hope our paths can cross once again at the Toronto Golf Show!
Thank you, Mike.